[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.d55.cz\/sikana-ve-skole\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.d55.cz\/sikana-ve-skole\/","headline":"\u0160ikana ve \u0161kole","name":"\u0160ikana ve \u0161kole","description":"N\u011bkter\u00e9 d\u011bti velmi brzo p\u0159ijdou na to, \u017ee jedn\u00edm z prost\u0159edk\u016f, jak dos\u00e1hnout sv\u00fdch c\u00edl\u016f, m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt i agrese. D\u00e1v\u00e1 jim pocit moci, je to \u010dasto zp\u016fsob, jak ovl\u00e1dnout celou situaci.
 \u0160ikana je jedn\u00edm z nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00edch stra\u0161\u00e1k\u016f jak pro u\u010ditele, kte\u0159\u00ed \u010dasto nev\u011bd\u00ed, jak by danou situaci m\u011bli \u0159e\u0161it, tak pro rodi\u010de, kte\u0159\u00ed maj\u00ed strach, […]","datePublished":"2019-10-10","dateModified":"2023-05-09","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.d55.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.d55.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b70ca3e57a61efa655568ea1bab21ec867ae74beaf8b182b9ca53fe6fcb8cee7?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/b70ca3e57a61efa655568ea1bab21ec867ae74beaf8b182b9ca53fe6fcb8cee7?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"d55.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.d55.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a358007_w3046_t1572352176.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.d55.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a358007_w3046_t1572352176.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.d55.cz\/sikana-ve-skole\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":532,"articleBody":" N\u011bkter\u00e9 d\u011bti velmi brzo p\u0159ijdou na to, \u017ee jedn\u00edm z prost\u0159edk\u016f, jak dos\u00e1hnout sv\u00fdch c\u00edl\u016f, m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt i agrese. D\u00e1v\u00e1 jim pocit moci, je to \u010dasto zp\u016fsob, jak ovl\u00e1dnout celou situaci.
 \u0160ikana je jedn\u00edm z nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00edch stra\u0161\u00e1k\u016f jak pro u\u010ditele, kte\u0159\u00ed \u010dasto nev\u011bd\u00ed, jak by danou situaci m\u011bli \u0159e\u0161it, tak pro rodi\u010de, kte\u0159\u00ed maj\u00ed strach, jestli dok\u00e1\u017eou sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b dostate\u010dn\u011b ochr\u00e1nit p\u0159ed nebezpe\u010d\u00edm.
 \u0160ikanou rozum\u00edme situaci, kdy \u017e\u00e1k, nebo skupina \u017e\u00e1k\u016f opakovan\u011b a systematicky napadaj\u00ed sv\u00e9ho spolu\u017e\u00e1ka. Jedn\u00e1 se o jak\u00fdsi soubor pravidel, v n\u011bm\u017e figuruj\u00ed siln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a slab\u0161\u00ed jedinci. Jde o model, v n\u011bm\u017e plat\u00ed tvrd\u00e9 sankce i za sebemen\u0161\u00ed proh\u0159e\u0161ky. \u010casto dokonce k samotn\u00e9mu proh\u0159e\u0161ku ani doj\u00edt nemus\u00ed.
 
 
 Sch\u00e9ma \u0161ikany
 V tomto modelu nach\u00e1z\u00ed spousta agresor\u016f bezpe\u010d\u00ed. Ob\u011b\u0165 si \u0161ikanu ne v\u017edy uv\u011bdom\u00ed, n\u011bkdy se s agresorem ztoto\u017en\u00ed, pova\u017euje ho za kamar\u00e1da. Jindy je ob\u011b\u0165 vn\u00edm\u00e1na jako ta, kdo situaci vyvolal sv\u00fdm chov\u00e1n\u00edm, resp. si za \u0161ikanu m\u016f\u017ee sama. Ob\u011bti jsou sv\u00fdm okol\u00edm vn\u00edm\u00e1ni jako divn\u00ed, jsou \u010dasto psychicky dept\u00e1ni, poni\u017eov\u00e1ni. Do \u0161ikany jsou tedy, \u010dasto i nev\u011bdom\u011b, zapojeny cel\u00e9 party. P\u0159i jej\u00edm \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed je tedy t\u0159eba pracovat s celou skupinou.
 \u0160ikana m\u00e1 hned n\u011bkolik f\u00e1z\u00ed:
 1. Ostrakismus\u2013 jedn\u00e1 se zejm\u00e9na o psychick\u00fd teror, kter\u00fd je c\u00edlen na neobl\u00edben\u00e9 \u010dleny skupiny
 2. Fyzick\u00e1 agrese\u2013 d\u00edt\u011b je \u010dasto bezd\u016fvodn\u011b napad\u00e1no agresorem
 3. Vytvo\u0159en\u00ed j\u00e1dra\u2013 agreso\u0159i se semknou do jedn\u00e9 skupiny a terorizuj\u00ed ostatn\u00ed
 4. P\u0159ijet\u00ed pravidel, zaveden\u00fdch agresory
 5. Totalita\u2013 pravidla agresor\u016f jsou p\u0159ijata v\u0161emi okolo
 
 
 Co d\u011blat, kdy\u017e je ob\u011bt\u00ed moje d\u00edt\u011b
 \u00b7 Nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je komunikace. Pokud se domn\u00edv\u00e1te, \u017ee je va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b ve \u0161kole \u0161ikanov\u00e1no, m\u011bli byste si s n\u00edm o tom nejprve promluvit. Ale mus\u00edte b\u00fdt opatrn\u00ed. Pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b to nebude v\u016fbec jednoduch\u00e9. Ob\u011bti b\u00fdvaj\u00ed uzav\u0159en\u00e9. M\u00edvaj\u00ed n\u00edzk\u00e9 sebev\u011bdom\u00ed. Maj\u00ed pocit, \u017ee je cel\u00e1 situace jejich vina. Ned\u016fv\u011b\u0159uj\u00ed dosp\u011bl\u00fdm. Je mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee u\u017e celou situaci nahl\u00e1sili u\u010ditel\u016fm, ti v\u0161ak k \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed p\u0159istupovali p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 benevolentn\u011b, tak\u017ee cel\u00e1 situace se nakonec pot\u00e9 je\u0161t\u011b zhor\u0161ila (agresor dostal sm\u011b\u0161n\u00fd trest a ob\u011bti se pomstil za \u017ealov\u00e1n\u00ed). V takov\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b bude m\u00edt ob\u011b\u0165 strach, abys se situace neopakovala. M\u00e1 dojem, \u017ee mu stejn\u011b nikdo pomoci nem\u016f\u017ee.
 \u00b7 Situaci je t\u0159eba ne\u0159e\u0161it pod vlivem emoc\u00ed, ale postupovat konstruktivn\u011b
 \u00b7 Probl\u00e9m ne\u0159e\u0161te s agresorem, ani s jeho rodi\u010di. Pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b se v\u0161e obr\u00e1t\u00ed proti v\u00e1m a va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b se ocitne v je\u0161t\u011b hor\u0161\u00ed situaci.
 \u00b7 Obra\u0165te se p\u0159\u00edmo na \u0161kolu, v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b ubl\u00ed\u017een\u00ed na zdrav\u00ed pak na policii.
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